Welcome, Family

Last week we talked about the valley between two mountains—how you can't get to the vision without going through the valley. People resonated. They shared stories. They're walking through it right now.

But here's what came up in Bible study with Antoinette this week: Before you can walk through the valley, you need something most of us have systematically trained ourselves NOT to have.

Makrothumia. Long-suffering. The patience of God.

And if we're being honest? In a world where we reload the page if it doesn't load in 2 seconds, we've lost the spiritual muscle to wait for anything—including the elusive breakthrough we long for.

🍞 This Week's Bread

• ⏳ The Sign: Your 8-Second Attention Span vs. God's 120-Year Patience

• 📖 The Word: Makrothumia—When God Gets Angry...Slowly

• 🌍 The Witness: Noah Hammered Nails for 120 Years While Everyone Laughed

• 🔥 The Work: How Patient Are You Really? (The Diagnostic)

• 🙏 Prayer Corner: Breaking the Instant Gratification Cycle

_{⏳ THE SIGN}
Your 8-Second Attention Span vs. God's 120-Year Patience

Let that sink in. In two decades, we've lost 33% of our ability to focus.

TikTok users watch videos for an average of 3.33 seconds before scrolling—completing only 22% of the content. Dr. Gloria Mark at UC Irvine found that in 2004, the average screen attention span was 2.5 minutes. By 2024? 47 seconds.

We check our phones 144 times a day. We sleep next to them so we don't miss notifications. 60% of 18-34 year olds physically cannot sleep without their phones within arm's reach.

Here's the problem: The same culture that conditioned us to need instant dopamine hits every 8 seconds is the same culture telling us to "trust the process" and "wait on God's timing."

How are you supposed to develop spiritual endurance when you've systematically destroyed your capacity to endure anything?

The valley requires patience. But we've been algorithmically trained for impatience.

📖 _{THE WORD}
Makrothumia—When God Gets Angry...Slowly

Antoinette taught us something this week that stopped me cold:

The Greek word translated as "patience" or "longsuffering" in the New Testament is makrothumia (μακροθυμία). It's a compound word:

So literally? Makrothumia means "long anger". Or as one scholar beautifully put it: "long-tempered"—the opposite of short-tempered."

God doesn't lack anger at sin. He delays it.

This isn't passive niceness. It's sanctified slow reaction time. Makrothumia is:

• Patience under trial — not avoiding pain but enduring it

• Endurance without retaliation — having the power to respond but choosing to wait

• Steadfastness with hope — believing something better is coming

• Persistent love toward difficult people — especially those who offend you

God's Patience vs. God's Passivity

Some people mistake God's patience for God not caring. Peter addresses this head-on in 2 Peter 3:9. The scoffers were saying, "Where is this 'coming' Jesus promised? Everything continues as it has!"

Peter's response? God isn't slow—He's patient. His delay is mercy, not indifference. He's not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

Think about that: The reason you're still here reading this is because God has been makrothumia with you. Long-tempered. Delaying justified anger because He wants you to turn around.

_{🌍 THE WITNESS}
Noah Hammered Nails for Decades While Everyone Laughed

Want to see makrothumia in action? Look at Noah.

Genesis 6:3 records God's warning: "My Spirit shall not strive with man forever...his days shall be one hundred and twenty years."

120 years.

That's longer than anyone lives today. God saw the wickedness—"every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time" (Genesis 6:5)—and He could have sent judgment immediately.

But He didn't. He waited. He gave them 120 years to repent.

Noah's Part in God's Patience

While God waited, Noah worked. 2 Peter 2:5 calls him "a preacher of righteousness." For decades—possibly 75-120 years—Noah:

• Built an ark on dry land (it had never rained)

• Endured mockery from neighbors

• Preached repentance while hammering

• Believed God's promise even when the sky was clear

Can you imagine? Year 30: still building. Year 50: still preaching. Year 80: still waiting.

Did Noah ever think, "I've been waiting for decades and I haven't seen a single cloud! Maybe I heard wrong"? Did he ever want to give up when his neighbors thought he was crazy?

No. Noah never got impatient. He had makrothumia—because he believed God ALWAYS keeps His promises, and God's timing is perfect.

Here's what kills me: We can't wait 8 seconds for a video to load, but Noah waited over 40,000 days for God's promise to come true.

🔥 _{THE WORK}
How Patient Are You Really? (The Diagnostic)

Research from Fuller Theological Seminary identified three types of patience:

1. Interpersonal Patience

The Test: How do you respond when people disappoint you repeatedly?

• That friend who always cancels last minute?

• The family member who never changes?

• The coworker who keeps dropping the ball?

Makrothumia is specifically about patience with people, not circumstances. It's being slow to demand revenge or punishment when someone provokes you.

2. Life Hardship Patience

The Test: How do you handle long-term trials?

• The chronic illness that won't heal

• The job search that's taking years

• The relationship status that won't change

Studies show this type of patience is the strongest predictor of mental health and resilience against depression.

3. Daily Hassles Patience

The Test: What happens when your coffee order is wrong?

• Stuck in traffic

• Wi-Fi stops working

• App takes 10 seconds to load

Recent research defines impatience as the emotion we feel when facing a delay that seems unfair, unreasonable, or inappropriate.

The Brutal Truth

Research shows patient people:

• Experience less depression and negative emotions

• Report fewer health problems (headaches, ulcers, etc.)

• Are more cooperative, empathic, and forgiving

• Feel more gratitude and connection to others

• Have better sleep and lower stress levels

But here's the kicker: A 2012 study showed patience can be trained. After just 2 weeks of patience training, participants felt more patient, less depressed, and had higher positive emotions.

Patience isn't something you either have or don't. It's something you build.

🙏 PRAYER CORNER

This week, we’re interceding for:

• Those who can't wait 11 seconds for a video but are asking God for breakthrough that's been years in the making

• Those who scroll when bored but need to sit in silence with God

• Those in the valley who keep checking "how much longer?" instead of "what am I learning?"

• Those who mistake God's patience for God's approval—and are about to face consequences they thought would never come

• Our generation to break the instant gratification cycle before it breaks us

📅 What's Next

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✝️ Final Word

We live in an 8-second culture trying to serve a 120-year God.

Your attention span has been systematically destroyed by algorithms designed to keep you scrolling. You've been conditioned for instant everything—instant entertainment, instant validation, instant results.

And then God asks you to wait. To trust. To endure. To develop makrothumia.

The same patience He's shown you:

1. Delaying justified anger

2. Giving you space to repent

3. Waiting for you to turn around

He's asking you to show others.

You can't develop spiritual endurance with an 8-second attention span.

Noah hammered for decades. God waited 120 years. Joseph endured 13 years in the pit and prison.

How long is your wait? I don't know. But I know this: Stop reloading the page. Stop checking for updates. Stop demanding God work on your instant-gratification timeline.

The God who waits is asking you to learn how to wait.

In His Love,
- Mogaka Events Ministry

Come As You Are is a Spirit-led devotional for young adults hungry for God's presence. Written by Ravi Patel and Chriss Mogaka.